Did We Say Amateurs Are The Problem? ep 49

In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, we’re addressing something that’s been coming up a lot lately — the conversation around how adult amateurs are portrayed, both online and within the horse world.

If you’ve seen our skits, you know we lean into humor. Yes, they’re exaggerated. Yes, they’re satirical. But they’re also rooted in very real experiences — things I’ve felt, things I’ve seen, and moments that so many of us as adult amateurs can relate to (even if we don’t always want to admit it out loud).

Recently, there’s been some backlash — not just toward us, but across the space — about how adult amateurs are represented. In this episode, we talk about that openly. We discuss the criticism, the stereotypes, and the tension between sharing relatable content and being misunderstood.

We also touch on conversations happening across other podcasts in the equestrian space — including differing opinions on whether humor like this reinforces negative narratives or simply reflects reality. And instead of avoiding it, we lean into it.

Because here’s the truth:
This community is too small — and too important — to be tearing each other down.

We talk about:

• Where the “adult amateur stereotype” actually comes from

• Why humor can feel uncomfortable (especially when it hits close to home)

• The difference between intention and interpretation

• And why supporting each other matters more than being right

This episode is not about calling anyone out. It’s about opening the door for better conversations, more understanding, and a stronger, more supportive community.

And to anyone who’s had a different perspective — you’re welcome here. The conversation isn’t closed… it’s just getting started.