Are Adult Amateurs The Problem In the Horse World? | Ep 48

What does it really mean to be an adult amateur in the equestrian world?

In this episode, we dive into the complicated, hilarious, and sometimes misunderstood life of the adult amateur rider. From juggling careers, families, and finances to managing the emotional investment we place in our horses, being an amateur rider comes with its own unique set of challenges. We talk about why amateurs often get labeled as “high-maintenance,” why trainers and barn managers sometimes feel like they’re under attack, and how most of the time it simply comes down to one thing: communication.

Adult amateurs care deeply about their horses and the sport, and that passion can sometimes come across in ways that aren’t always understood. Throughout the conversation, we share personal experiences, discuss the pressure and comparisons that exist in the equestrian community, and explore how balancing real life with a demanding sport can create both stress and humor.

We also highlight the importance of friendships and support systems within the adult amateur community — the people who understand exactly what it’s like to love this sport while navigating everything else life throws at you. At the end of the day, being an adult amateur may be chaotic, emotional, and occasionally dramatic… but it’s also one of the things that makes the equestrian world so entertaining and full of life.