stereotypes & Pressures in the horse community

Alexis and I are back—with a new recording location but the same honest conversations you’ve come to expect from us.

In this episode, we dove into some of the real-life challenges we’re facing with our horses, especially Alexis’s gelding who’s been dealing with some tough hoof issues. That naturally led us into the hot topic of farrier fees, expectations, and the controversy surrounding the value of their work. I also shared a few listener comments that added even more depth to the conversation.

We got real about the struggle of balancing horse life with the rest of life—trying to find time to ride, dealing with the relentless summer heat, and staying on top of hoof care. One listener sent in a beautiful message about being an adult amateur in the horse world, and we read it on air because it captured so much of what many of us are feeling.

We also talked about competition—how our definitions of “success” in the saddle have changed over time. Whether you’re chasing ribbons in the show ring or just enjoying a quiet ride in the field, there’s space for every version of joy in this sport.

As we wrapped up, we reflected on the pressures and stereotypes that exist in the equestrian world—and how important it is to support one another, no matter where someone is in their journey. We all make sacrifices to be here. Let’s choose to lead with empathy and respect.

And finally, we gave a little teaser for an upcoming documentary that we’re really excited to talk more about soon.

As always, thanks for listening—and remember to protect your peace and lift up your community. 💛